Si Hye Jon 시혜전
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Tuesday, 12 July 2011

i have a story to tell..
something that I encountered last sat.

Last Saturday night, I was at Serangoon area distributing the flyers for RSPID upcoming event (ProjectID). After 2 of my friends and I finished distributing ard the blocks we are in-charged of, we sat at the void deck of blk203 and waited for our seniors to come.

While waiting, a Chinese lady in her mid-30s approached us-- short hair, wearing a stripe shirt and OP three quarter pants.

She says, "Girls, can do auntie a favour? I really need your help."
She sat down in front of us, panting very loudly.
She continues, "I just fell down. I'm 2 months pregnant and I'm now having some internal bleeding. I lose my pouch and everything, I can't contact my husband who is now in JB working. I need some money to take the cab and go down my clinic to see my gynae, also to pay the deposit. Can you help me? I really hope that you girls are the angels!! I'm now really in pain. Please..", she kept on pleading us pitifully.

Next, she asked, "Are you girls Christian?"
I nodded my head and she says, "PRAISE THE LORD! Can you girls lend me some money?"

I saw the bruises and stitches on both of her hands.
Three of us looked at each other, and we took out our wallets. We took out some money, and told her we don't have so much money with us now. We asked her how much does she need, and she said $100. At first, I took out $20 and my friends took out $10 and $7 respectively.

She asked, "How much can you borrow me?" and we say, "We only have $37."
"You girls are so pitiful", and she turned to me, "there's an ATM nearby can you go and withdraw money for me? Please..? I really need the money."

I was like struggling to take out the other $20 from my wallet.
Three of us looked at each other again, then she continued looking at me, "You know.. we are Christians. What's money to us?? Don't worry, I'll return the money to you."

Hearing this, I took out the last $20 in my wallet.

She continues, "You can call me Sister Serena, and my husband is Brother Adrian. Can you give me your contact no. so that I can contact you at 10pm when my husband is back? So that I can return you the money", and I gave her my HP no., "don't worry, I'll definitely return the money wherever you are after 10pm", she reassured me.

I was holding on to the money, and she looked at me. Then she asked again, "how much do you have now?" And we said, "$57?" She asked me to return the $7 to my friend and tried to persuade me to go the ATM machine with her again, "Please.. can you go to the ATM machine with me to draw $50 more? We can cab there and I'll definitely send you back here later. I'll return you the money after 10pm."
[well.. obviously she's aiming me. cos I gave her my contact no. AND I said that I'm a Christian]

We were finding ways to reject her. We even told her that we can call our seniors down, cause if there are more people, it'll be easier for us to get $100 for her, and they can help her too. She refused, and kept on stopping us from calling our seniors.

She says, "I don't want too many people to know about this, you know this is very embarrassing? Please don't do that, give me some face.. Please..?"
She continued to persuade me, and I say, "Sorry, cause later they will need to wait for me here, and I don't want to make them wait."

After that, she gave up and said that $57 is alright, and she'll ask around again. She then said bye to us, and turn to me and smile, "No, I'll see you later."

A few minutes later, our seniors finally came to meet us. At first, three of us were like struggling whether or not to let our seniors know about this matter. In the end, we still let them know.
So we told them the whole situation, and they say we shouldn't give her the money etc.
After which, we left the block and head for another direction. While walking, one of my seniors received a call from another senior who is on his way to meet us. He told her that he gave $240 to a lady (the one we gave the money to). We were shocked when we heard that. We told him that we met that lady too. So, now we know that most likely the lady is cheating on us. So we met up with that senior and ran around to search for the nearest police post.

Oh wells. the police say they can't do anything, cause this case is considered sympathy.
Cos we gave the money willingly. So this case will be under "begging" which is under NEA. x)

After everything.. I was really waiting for her call.
I was secretly hoping that what she said was real.
but. I was wrong.
EVERYTHING IS A LIE.
and what's worse..
SHE ACTUALLY USES OUR CHRISTIAN FAITH TO MAKE ME FALL INTO HER TRAP!

i really dislike this kind of people who misuses our faith!!

hais.
but what was done is alrdy done.
I can't do anything.
so I shall treat it as a lesson.

I told my parents about it.
and they actually taught me how to deal with this kind of ppl in this type of situation.
we can offer to help them.. but NOT by giving them money.
for eg.
we can help them to call the ambulance if they are injured.
(ambulance is definitely faster than cab)
we can buy them a meal if they say they have no money to buy food.

actually I didn't want many ppl to know about this..
cos ppl might just say that I'm stupid?
how can I give so much money to a COMPLETE stranger?
but wells.. I guess I need to let more ppl know.
so that they can beware of this lady if they met her someday or whatever.
NEED TO STOP HER FROM CHEATING.

I really have no idea what is she gonna do with the money.
whatever it is. I really hope that she is using the money wisely..
and not like using them on drugs or whatever bad things.
cos my friend told me that some ppl have bruises all over their hands because of drugs. x)

posted at 22:03 by si.hye.jon

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